Human is the most complicated creature in the world. We will never ever satisfied with what we have. We want to have a partner when we are alone. We want to have freedom when we are in a relationship. It goes the same to those who are pursuing their acedemic and even for those who are working. Yes, this is human's nature.
Aiming for a better things or better life or whatever is a normal nature for Homosapiens. But why there are peoples always regret for their past? Always talking about "if only" and comparing themselves with other peoples. Isn't it tired to do so? Why can't we just look forward and try our best to improve rather than just kept saying "if only" and comparing? It would not make us any better by doing that. We will just cause other people to suffer together with us mentally.
Why can't we just take everything that we have, treasure it so that we would not regret in the future and continuously regret for the things that we had regreted having it? Ya, it's simpler to say than do. I am trying my best also.
Instead of being regret why don't we take an action to mitigate the regret"ness"? For an example, stop doing what we are doing that we felt regret of, or if we can't then just keep going and continue with a gratitude heart. Just stop complaining and look forward and not backward.
Do not let our thought torture peoples around us! Let us be the blessing to others and not bugs that people need to fix in their lives.Thanks for listening to what I am thinking and sorry if I said something wrong. All the best and keep going friends!
Cheers =)
U had brightened up some ppl's feeling
ReplyDeleteas u brightened up urs. *clap clap* =)
Some ppl can only get better by comparing themselves. Ppl are born different, and THAT's how things work.
ReplyDeleteWithout comparison, ppl lack the motivation to move forward. That is why there's something called 'competitive advantage' and nothing uses 'singular measure'.
Take a runner as an example, when he's running himself, he'll kept thinking, "I am as good as I am". But when there are someone for him to compare with, thoughts go differently, "I must work harder to get past him" or "I am that close to losing, I should work on my pacing". Competition measures you, comparison moves you.
Yes..That belongs to positive comparison.What I mean here is,for those who thk negatively by comparing + complaining without doing anything.Congratulation If you have the postive ones..and keep running friends..
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