Love is blind? I guess none of you never heard of this sentence. Some may be agree with it and some may be the other way round. As I remember a quote printed on one of my friend's T-shirt written, "No Right or Wrong, Just Different lah..." exactly, there is no right or wrong to be argued with this sentence.
There are so many other quotes that we always heard and we even agreed with those at times, for instance "love is blind", "love with all your heart", "you need to sacrifice in order to gain something", "appreciate things or peoples around you", and et cetera et cetera. Do you really understand what they really meant or, did you ever tried to fulfil them? I guess most of your answer is "NO".
Is love really blind? As for me, I personally think that LOVE IS NOT BLIND. We love and we sacrifice for the person we love. sacrification is something so precious that our loved ones could do for us and how could we say that love is blind? Some people might have said love is blind when they encountered a situation where their friend fallen in love with someone whose so called 'not so good' or 'not so good looking'. I tell you what, this is TRUE LOVE and not love is blind.
I guess none of you will ever get those messages until you really FALL and you get up and continue walking. We need to grow in terms of mentally as we continue to grow old with our loved ones.
Things we shall do :
(a) Always ask your partner what she/he is thinking ( I found this rather useful to me )
(b) Give surprises whenever it is necessary
(c) Tell her/him "I love you" more frequently ( this is necessary )
(d) If you are a guy, kiss her forehead and tell her how precious she is to you
(e) Go for an outing or a trip when it is time to do so
(f) Tell her she is pretty no matter how many thousand times she asked
(g) Girls, pretend to be 'not so smart' when you need to
(h) Read her/his blog no matter how lame it is (suggested by jinn jinn)
These are just something that I think it is necessary, If you have more to say about this, feel free to drop a comments about what you are thinking.
Being with someone you love is NOT A GAME. It is a lifetime matter. Think!Before you make any decision. All the best every couple out the there.
.........I found another blog post that can best describe what has been missed out in my own post ...go to --->Jinn Jinn
Life will not be so colorful without you
ReplyDeletehaha... beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder... who are we to even judge.
ReplyDeletea song for you or perhaps for your boy to sing to you... hahahaaa:
Colourblind - Darius
Feelin blue, while Im trying to forget the feeling that I miss you
Feelin green, when the jealousy swells and it wont go away in dreams
Feelin yellow, Im confused inside
A little hazy but mellow when I feel your eyes on me
Feelin fine! sublime!
When that smile of yours creeps into my mind
Oh oh
Nobody told me you'd feel so good
Nobody said you'd be so beautiful
Nobody warned me about your smile
Youre the light, you're the light
When I close my eyes
I'm colour blind
You make me colour blind
Feelin red, when you spend all your time with your friends and not me instead
Feelin black, when I think about all the things that I feel I lack
Feelin jaded, when its not gone right
All the colours have faded, then I feel your eyes on me
Feelin fine! sublime!
When that smile of yours creeps into my mind
Mm mm
Nobody told me you'd feel so good
Nobody said you'd be so beautiful
Nobody warned me about your smile
Youre the light, youre the light
When I close my eyes
I'm colour blind
You make me colour blind
Blinded by the light you shine, the colours fade completely
Blinded by you every time, I feel your smile defeat me
Im colour blind
I just cant deny this feeling
Nobody told me you'd feel so good
Nobody said you'd be so beautiful
Nobody warned me about your smile
You're the light, you're the light
When I close my eyes
I'm colour blind
Nobody told me you'd feel so good
Nobody said you'd be so beautiful
Nobody warned me about your smile
You're the light, you're the light
When I close my eyes
I'm colour blind
You make me colour blind
I'm colour blind
P.S: this song came into my mind when i read this post... hahaha... i should go tell my gal she's the most beautiful thing i ever met
wah....joe...you beat li theen....this is the longest reply i've ever read....copy and paste the whole lyric....doink.....(-_-)|||....
ReplyDeleteFrom now onwards, everyone can beat Li Theen. I've decided to cut down on my words. :)
ReplyDelete"No Right or Wrong, Just Different lah..." Can't fully agree. For many things, there is Right or Wrong, just like there is True or False. It'll never be a matter of difference/relativity to me.
i miss li theen's karangan.....>.<
ReplyDeleteeh... i thought she was talking bout right or wrong in love...
ReplyDeleteactually some of those romantic expression you quoted are created for commercial purposes but some are rather literature in nature. however i personally think that love indeed is blind because once you've fallen in love, you will think the world is absolutely perfect and flawless having found the right one to share that blissfulness with you. when you're in love you will come to the conclusion that his fart smell better than other guys.therefore love blinds you from apprehend the reality that fart is suppose to be smelly. To other way about it.
ReplyDeleteThe reason being as suggested by pyschologist is that human's neuron system is being triggered to make them feel the way they feel by the power of opposite sex attraction. It's part of human procreation process. If you don't feel nice about your other half, how can both of you mate?
Aiks..what more shall I say about this? Seems like all of you have your own comments or shall I say have your own opinion about LOVE? Anyway, what I need to say is, "No Right or Wrong, Just Different lah..." ahaha..thanks for the efforts you guys make in dropping a comment(s)..btw, I am curious about cnigel here..
ReplyDeletewhat you curious about? He's my friend... a long lost one. Woah... your into psychology now?
ReplyDeleteInteresting, i feel like to write something here and i like ur comment, cnigel. Yes there is no right or wrong as human designed to be that way: to be attract by opposite sex. Once fall in love, he/she will do something he/she will not do previuosly to please her/him. Sometimes people call these sacrifices. And during this state, a part of brain is deactivated resulting a tendency not to objectively see faults in the other person which might treaten love. This explained situation where your friend fall in love with someone whose so called 'NOT SO GOOD'. I feel sad about this but this is necessary for a species to continue on and that's whay we are here.
ReplyDeleteSurprisingly...it has been quite some time and yet there is still a long comment has been posted...* curious *
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